In Process

"Whether you are happy or whether you are sad, it is wise to remember that you are really in process."
Maya Angelou

This was on a card that was given to me a couple of years ago. It's one of those quotes or thoughts that has stayed with me throughout my battle. When people look to me for advice for their family or friends that have just been diagnosed, I just tell them to make sure they feel what they want to feel. Let them process the whole ordeal before trying to make it okay for everyone else. I firmly believe that in most situations in life, there is a process we have to go through before we're able to answer questions or accept support from others. Make sure you take that time for yourself. It will help you out in the long run.